Your prom is a few months away and romance is in the air.
The newness of this experience can take your romantic energies to another level.
Whether your date is someone you’re seriously in love with or someone you would like to begin a relationship with, the magic associated with prom can make the night really special. After all, it’s probably your first. Before you decide if you and your prom date can take your relationship to the next level, examine your time together by thinking about all of your firsts to find out if your relationship will grow past prom night.
Think back to when you first saw him.
What about him caught your attention?
Was it his outgoing and loveable personality, his caring and sincere nature, or his
goofy and fun antics?
What about the first real date?
Now, we’re not talking about the walk to your locker.
Did he ask you out or did you ask him?
What did you do on your date?
Was it the usual dinner and a movie or a stroll on the beach?
Regardless of where it was and what you did, the details are very important.
Now, what were the both of you wearing, what did you order, and what did you two
talk about?
How did the date end?
I hope by now you had a chance to hold his hand.
Did the night end with a kiss? If so, was it an awkward moment, a lot of staring into
each other’s eyes, or was the kiss just the way you dreamt it would be? Let’s keep it real.
Was it just a quick peck on the cheek or a kiss that lingered on for a minute or two?
Did he hold you tight?
The much dreaded first fight.
No matter how well things seem to be going, all couples eventually go through the first
fight.
Do you remember who started it or what it was even about?
Was it just dirty looks, the silent treatment, or a screaming match?
How long did it last and who apologized first?
How many firsts do you really have?
Your firsts could help define the true meaning of your relationship. How many details
you remember may determine if it’s truly love. Whether or not this prom is your first,
make it enjoyable.
